(Clearwisdom.net) My name is Qimei. When I was little, I was often very sick, so I didn't read too many books. I was quite fortunate to learn Falun Dafa in 1996, and within a few months, I reached the energetic state of having no illness. Everyone said that I had changed into a totally different person.
Now I'd like to share with fellow practitioners about how I helped my grandson with the teachings of Dafa. My first grandson is 14 years old, and is named "Jiujiu"(jiu means nine). He gave himself this name the day he quit the Communist Party Young Pioneers. I laughed at the time and said, "'Nine-Nine become one' - one day you will become part of Dafa." Last year he was a freshman in high school. After studying for half of the term, his behavior changed. He became very bad-tempered and did not like anything he saw. Neither his teachers nor his classmates dared to say anything to him. During class, he would listen only if he wanted to and sleep if he wanted to sleep. His teachers were afraid to say anything to him, and his parents became very worried. They tried to educate him with theories and they used different kinds of helpful techniques, but he did not listen. The teachers told his parents not to push him too much due to his adolescence, but he became more annoying day after day. One day when I was alone with hime, I gently asked him, "Are you pessimistic?" He replied angrily, "It would be better if I died than lived." I said, "Master told us in Zhuan Falun, 'It's way too easy to control an ordinary person's head' (Zhuan Falun, translated by North American Practitioners). What you are saying or thinking right now is not of yourself, but the evil spirits from the other dimensions that are controlling you. Because you quit an organization affiliated with the CCP and are able to step into the new century, they will interfere and persecute you whenever you have bad thoughts, even a little bit." He nodded with understanding, and things seemed to get better. But after the winter vacation began, he became even more ill-tempered and he lost his temper often, without reason. His parents, aunt, and uncle had no idea what to do with him. Later his aunt wanted to take him to see a psychiatrist, but he refused and lost his temper. At this moment, I remembered Master's words,
"While working, your tone of voice, your kindheartedness, and your reasoning can change a person's heart, whereas commands never could!" ("Clearheadedness," from Essentials For Further Advancement)
Thinking of this, I said to him gently, "I suggest you read Zhuan Falun."
He agreed, and that night he locked himself in his room, reading Zhuan Falun. He only came out for dinner, and finished reading the whole book before 10:00 p.m. That night Master's Law body purified Jiujiu's body. He showed symptoms of a cold, and his sweat had a terrible odor. He recovered within a day, and I later asked him how he felt. He said that the diseases he used to have had all disappeared. From then on his agreeable personality was evident and he was able to study by himself. Periodically I poked him intentionally to see whether he would become angry or not. He smiled and told me that that would not work. His parents and teachers are now very happy. He was even elected as class monitor this term, and his teachers have praised him many times. He is now reading Zhuan Falun again. He told me that he follows Master's teachings when he studies, does his duties in class, and helps classmates to accept "Truthfulness, Benevolence, Tolerance" and Dafa. He is hoping that he will elevate and assimilate to Dafa with his classmates.
