(Minghui.org) I am 38 years old. I was competitive and always felt superior to other women my age. I used to smoke, drink, and gamble, and I loved to dress up. My husband loved me and my parents-in-law treated me nicely. However, I took it for granted. I always yelled at my husband's sisters and my parents-in-law. I did not get on well with my neighbors, and they all avoided me.
As a result of always fighting with others, I incurred lots of diseases such as dizziness, constipation, hemorrhoids, back pain, incontinence, serious gynecological diseases, pelvic inflammatory disease, and cervicitis. When I felt dizzy, I could not eat or drink and had to stay in bed for three days at a time, vomiting frequently. The hospital could not cure it. I also had two surgeries for hemorrhoids but to no avail. In 2007, I had cervical cancer. In three years alone, I spent more than 50,000-60,000 yuan in medical expenses. I was just in my early 30s and it seemed that my life was about to end. I cried every day.
In the summer of 2008, a Falun Gong practitioner clarified the truth about Falun Gong to me. I bought the book Zhuan Falun. I learned how to be a good person. In less than three months, all of my illnesses were cured. It brought me hope for life.
Before I began practicing, my husband always listened to me. Just when I started to practice, my husband began an affair with another woman. After I found out about it, I was so mad that I could not sleep for several days. I wanted revenge. I soon found a boyfriend. He was very able and frequently took me out on dates. I thought about divorcing my husband.
When I was unable to control the affair, Master's words came to my mind.
“Throughout history, or from the perspective of higher dimensions, the issues of one’s desire and lust have been very critical in determining whether one can practice cultivation. So we must really regard these things with indifference.” (Lecture Six in Zhuan Falun)
Master said,
“...improper relations between people who aren’t husband and wife is a sin for human beings; it undermines the institution of the family as well as ethical relations.” (“Fa Teaching Given in Manhattan” 2006)
Master gave me a second life and purified my body. How could I have such bad thoughts? Was I still a practitioner? I calmed down and looked inward. I found that I had not changed in my heart. I did not care about my husband, so he had an affair. When I changed, my husband returned to normal.
Due to Master's mercy, my family became harmonious. Although my husband does not practice Falun Gong, he supports me and respects Dafa. People all knew that I changed after practicing Dafa. I quit smoking and drinking. My family used to have about 30 acres of farmland, now we have more than 140 acres. Every year we can harvest more than 3,000 kilos of cotton, more than 200,000 kilos of wheat and more than 1,000 kilos of soybeans.
I also used Dafa's principles to teach my two children. My daughter is praised by everyone. My son studies in the best middle school in our county. The teacher said he is not only academically strong but also a very good person. My father-in-law used to frown when people mentioned me in front of him, now he always compliments me in front of others.
I want to thank Master for the endless blessings he has brought to us. Before I practiced Dafa, health and happiness were just two empty words to me. Now I really know what it's like to be healthy and what it's like to be happy.
Category: Health Benefits
