(Minghui.org) My husband was impatient and hot-tempered. He had been indoctrinated by the Chinese Communist Party’s (CCP) culture and would get upset, scold, and fight with others whenever things didn’t go his way.
I live my life according to Falun Dafa’s teachings and treat others with kindness. I also search inward for my shortcomings when I have problems or conflicts. So when my husband got upset, I usually stayed calm.
I was putting things away in the kitchen one day, and my husband got angry all of a sudden. He threw a cup full of tea at me, and it flew past me. I ignored it and went to my room. He was still upset, and picked up the cup and threw it at me again. It didn’t hit me but made a hole in the wall. I just let it go.
His health then began to deteriorate, and I took good care of him so that he could recuperate and enjoy life. He finally understood and told me, “I owe you so much and won’t be able to pay you back in this lifetime. I’ll pay you back in the next life.” I didn’t allow myself to get emotional after hearing this.
I had talked to my husband many times about Falun Dafa and the persecution and hoped he would renounce the CCP. But he refused to quit the Party and often scolded me about it.
When he was hospitalized, another patient said, “Your husband has a rough personality and is hard to get along with, but you still take good care of him. He keeps you busy, yet you are always smiling and friendly. It’s not easy taking care of a patient, and your husband is lucky to have you!”
My husband interjected, “My wife is a Falun Dafa practitioner.”
I happened to be burning incense to pay respect to Master one day when I found a note on the table that said, “I want to withdraw from the Chinese Communist Party.” And my husband signed his name at the bottom of the note. I shed tears of gratitude and joy and thanked Master for his compassion.
I have also clarified the truth to my young relatives and they quit the CCP. They had an accident on the freeway, and the car was totaled but no one was injured. Two of them work at a bank and, after quitting the Party, one was promoted to branch manager and another to director of the sales department. One relative who withdrew from the Party works at the municipal committee.
Another relative was still childless after seven years of marriage. But after he renounced the Party, he received truth-clarification materials and an amulet. His wife then gave birth to a healthy baby last year. They experienced the wonders of Dafa and know it’s a good practice.
My husband passed away during the pandemic. I felt a sense of loss and was in pain. After all, we were together for more than 60 years. My children live thousands of miles away, and I live by myself now. I feel lonely sometimes, but I gain new insights from studying the Fa, which enables me to rise above it.
I’m a Dafa practitioner and I’m fortunate to have Master and other practitioners around me. I will study the Fa well, cultivate with diligence, and return home with Master.
Thank you, Master! Thank you, fellow practitioners!
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